The gun range, cancer treatment, walkies

Another early morning. I managed to sleep until 4 a.m., but I am happy with that. It could be worse! 

Gun Range Proposal

Here is an update to our big meeting on the 11th. We've got emails, phone calls, and so much to work on, sift through, digest, and read. We have moral agency inasmuch as few residents want this gun range in the community, and the by-laws and township planning precludes it with current zoning. 

When the OPP ran the training we worked around it. It wasn't pleasant, but we felt better knowing who was there, and we had some confidence that they were all in uniform. They were on the job as part of their training. 

We made the local paper! They quoted me, and they quoted hubby. We were quite pleased with the coverage. If you ever want press go to your local small paper and keep contact with editors. They want to cover local issues that have a direct impact on daily life. 

Several people spoke, in a packed room. One man raises horses. Others have B & Bs, rent cottages, and are farming. In the photo, Amy Millar, yes, a Canadian Olympian, explained the impact of the noise on staff, students, her foals, her teaching practice. 

"A War Going On!" 

I had an interview with the reporter regarding the proposed gun club. I explained our position and said that if she had any questions... She did. She wanted to know who spoke so eloquently at the meeting,  Joe somebody, who sat beside me. I said I could help her! (That's my hubby!) 

JB totally negated the proponent's premise that we know nothing of guns. In fact, many of the people there have guns, as they are recreational hunters, or farmers who use them.

😷Thursday, after the Tuesday meeting, DNE posted information that someone at the meeting has tested positive for COVID. I thanked them for letting us know. 

Managing Prostate Cancer, PART XC – JB has a cancer treatment next month. (Yes, it is event #90!) He was supposed to have Bone Density Scan #7 prior to this appointment. (Bone Density Scan #5 was an adventure in Ottawa: freezing rain and power outages.) His urologist's office called Wednesday to ask if we had the scan booked. Our local hospital has not contacted us. I know our ERs have been closing with staffing issues. Our rural hospitals are the same as the city hospitals. Our Perth & Smiths Falls hospitals have had to close with staffing issues. Ottawa Valley news reported it:

There are also “big city issues” such as longer wait times for diagnostic testing and surgical cancellations due to the lack of beds.”

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🌲 I went for a relaxing walk with Cinnamon. Forest bathing is healing, being out in nature is grand. 

The maple trees are amazing! It's a carpet of beauty. 

Down the hill we went, he likes to lead so he hustled. He'll roar past me and fling himself up a tree for fun.

The Five Sisters tree clump is so pretty. You can see the yellow canopy, with the green wetland in the background. 

He loves walking along the fallen logs. Even if they are covered in moss.

The green mosses on the cedars are so pretty.

The frog pond is still green with non-invasive phragmites. Soon it'll all be asleep, protecting the critters in the mud.

Cinnamon had several dust baths, rolling around waiting for a belly rub. 

He waited on the driveway for me, and another belly rub, after which I picked him up and hustled him into the house. Walkies were done.

BOOK REVIEW: Fireballs in my Eucharist: what families with cancer need to know

Sometimes, we just have to laugh. The title of this book didn't make sense at first. The patient thought she heard she had 'Fireballs in my Eucharist'. What she'd been told was that she had fibroids in her uterus.

From the publicist:

Fireballs, indeed

Dr. Pinzone quickly figured out she meant to say, “I have fibroids in my uterus.” In this moment of sudden clarity, he had another: Patients are dangerously uneducated and misinformed when it comes to the confusing and complex topic of cancer and its treatment.

I believe that this is a book more applicable to Americans than Canadians. Our Canadian universal healthcare system is vastly different than the United States healthcare, whereby people pay for care, and then must claim it back from their insurers (if they have healthcare insurance).

That said, navigating one's way through any system is much smoother if you have a sense of the journey you are about to take, if you can name the places you will go, if you have learned to speak the language, or have a translation book with you. Not all of us know the proper names for our body parts. This is a crime. We prepare for trips, by researching what we will need to take, where we will go, and what we have to do to protect ourselves. This is the same for healthcare systems. We need the vocabulary to handle these situations. Those who travel on a journey need to be able to ask for directions. Those journeying through disease trajectory need to read everything they can, in order to understand what is going right and when things are going wrong and you need help. The definitions at the back of the book really helps.

Another benefit of the book is that it explains how cancer cells form, and gets down to the basics of cancer cells, what they look like and how they are differentiated from 'normal' cells.
Here are normals cells.

And cancerous cells.

cells should grow and divide this way

Too often we use battle vocabulary, but if we know anything about cancer cells, they are produced by our own bodies, in response to stress, chemicals in the environment, pollution, fatty tissue hormones, and the like. There are no winners or losers, as we all die and dying isn't losing or failure. We manage our cancer as best we can.

I prefer to say:                "We are confronting cancer."

 In this book patients will discover:

1.       How to educate yourself about cancer

2.       How to navigate the medical system

3.       How to anticipate the mental and physical challenges

4.       How to leverage other life skills in the battle against cancer

These things can be the difference between life and death, and is especially relevant given the flood of newly insured patients entering into the healthcare marketplace with the enactment of the USA Affordable Care Act.

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hearing aids can be small,
barely noticeable

Of course, doctors use words we might never have heard before. A diagnosis of cancer often renders one not only speechless, but hearing impaired (even if you do not have hearing issues). And many of us have hearing issues as it is. When we read, we predict what the next word might be. The same is true of hearing. My late mother, once she'd lost much of her hearing, would read lips and often answer my questions with answers that simply did not make sense. Too often, doctors speak quickly, quietly, and throw words at you without asking you if you understand what you have heard.

Depending upon the tact, and the attitude of the oncologist, it is a moment in time when we are in shock. I've been an escort for a client whose GP told her that her breast cancer had returned. Her words were comforting for both her patient and to my ears:

Hubby, pre-op!

"You've confronted cancer before and showed great strength. We'll work on this together and I am confident you will handle it well." 

This was a patient with several physical, and mental health issues. Her schizophrenia was being managed and her ODSP benefits were giving her much home support.

This is a good reason to take people with us when we go to see a doctor. My mother thought she had a particular type of cancer, but when I researched it, she'd misheard them. I wrote about his in my book: I kept on doing research on my own, but could not find anything on leukoplatia  (I learned later, in 2008 when I was researching for my book, that it was leukoplakia.  “Cancer in the groin” was covered, but it did not seem to apply to her situation.

I took this book with me when we went for the pre-op appointment for hubby's cancer surgery. He's since had his surgery, all went well, and we are in post-recovery. Thank you to all who have enquired! The healthcare system can work well for most!

Hubby's hospital bed,
happy to be home!

I like Fireballs in my Eucharist. 

It's not a big book (150 pages or so). It is well-written, and contains excellent advice. Advice I've written about a lot on my healthcare blog regarding Ontario healthcare:

Preparing for an appointment

How to advocate in the hospital

Questions to ask your physician

Hospitalization for seniors -what families need to know regarding hospitalisation and discharge

Before you dial 911