Showing posts with label afghanistan. Show all posts
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Wednesday, 8 September 2021

Book Review: Not a Happy Family

 


I quite liked it. I like murder mysteries, especially ones written by women (Shari Lapena). The crux of the plot is that a wealthy couple is murdered, with some anger and violence. We had such a situation in Toronto. I wonder if this was the inspiration?!

"Barry Sherman, 75, the founder and chairman of the board of generic drug giant Apotex, and his 70-year-old wife, Honey, were found dead in the basement pool area of their home on Old Colony Rd. in Toronto's North York neighbourhood on Dec. 15, 2017."

It makes one wonder. The Shermans, however, were well-liked  philanthropic billionaires. This mystery involves the same plot, billionaires who are murdered, but the characters are different and reveal themselves one at a time. 

Fred and Sheila Mercer are murdered following an Easter family dinner, which included their three adult children. There are family secrets which are revealed slowly, one chapter at a time. It was wonderfully enthralling.

She creates depth and breadth and makes you wonder. Shari Lapena writes well and reveals those little details piece by piece. The book really unfolds, and sucks you in. JB read it, too. Both of us really enjoyed this book. You need not read these in order, even though I did! I enjoy seeing how authors evolve as they write.


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When I was searching for info on Lapena, I found this post she'd made on Twitter. She is quite active. People are so quick to judge politics, and world issues. We do not know what we do not know. That said, I don't think an author ought to be weighing in on such. The evacuation from Afghanistan was more complex than we citizens know. 

Many countries, Taliban restrictions

There are reasons why it was so complex.


Tuesday, 8 July 2014

Book Review: VALOR: Unsung Heroes from Iraq, Afghanistan, and the Home Front

I had a rainy day and I tucked into this book after my chores were done. I've read Fifteen Days, by Christie Blatchford. She was embedded with our Canadian Military. It was a pretty intense read. What I found, though, is that as an embedded journalist, she loses much perspective. In fact, many journalists are trying to write more of a novel than a report, and they present a very one-sided point of view.
There are books from parents: A Mother's Road to Kandahar, whose son was deployed.

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VALOR: Unsung Heroes from Iraq, Afghanistan, and the Home Front

This is a new book, published just recently (July 1st) and I was sent an uncorrected proof for review. Written by Mark Lee Greenblatt, a lawyer in Washington, D.C., I was quite curious about the way he would treat these subjects. I was hopeful that he would have done his homework, and it appears so.

The issues with 'unsung heroes' is first finding them, and secondly, corroborating their stories, thirdly writing a good tale.
Greenblat has done all three.

These guys seem humble, but fierce, and well-trained, and all seemed awfully good guys. I was wondering how unbiased the book would be, but he seemed to genuinely admire these men, and also talked to their buddies who confirmed their stories.

What I find sad, now that we know more about such issues as PTSD and the impact of war on a soldier, is that two of the nine did not live to see the publication of the book. Good soldiers, all, this is a fine testament to the men with principles, ethics, and humanity.
For those who have never been to war, it is a frightening read, Goldblat writes well about these nine men and the situations which faced them.

Greenblatt writes of their influences, the reasons they became soldiers, and I was fascinated, despite being a dove. I truthfully cannot understand how fighting in Afghanistan means fighting for the US, and I'm glad they've brought both US and Canadian troops home. As one soldier says, being in the navy or fighting from the air may be old-style war, and boots on the ground are terribly dangerous with IEDs and terrorists intent on killing both foreigner, citizens and themselves.

I fervently hope that we can prevent terrorism with technology, rather than risking our young men and women's lives. It is a good job, good training for young people to join this type of group where looking out for one another is as important as looking out for oneself. Thankfully, we've learned more about PTSD since the Vietnam War, unfortunately, both of our countries do little to treat the condition and support our returning wounded soldiers.

An excellent read, one that kept me intrigued, even while I mourned lives lost.

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“Hero” has become a term that is too easily cast about in our society. But when it comes to the courageous group of Americans who choose to serve and defend our nation, it is a term for which they are all worthy. There are, however, a group among them whom have taken “hero” to a new level. In VALOR, Mark Lee Greenblatt tells the thrilling stories of nine brave Americans who risked their lives to accomplish a mission or to save the lives of others.

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A decorated Afghanistan war veteran with post-traumatic stress disorder says the only help he got from military counsellors was he was given a rock to squeeze when he wasn't feeling well.

Monday, 11 November 2013

Remembrance Day is here again

I am amazed how a writer or veterans, can diss the entire teac
Remembrance Day, Perth
hing profession, claiming what teachers do or do not do. Kids are keen, interested and have been exposed to many family stories.

Linda Granfield is a prolific author, with many books that write of soldiers, veterans and war, specifically for elementary children. With instant news and TV coverage of horrific sights, drones murdering civilians and children, I would think that young kids need not know about war as the older ones do.

This is one of my favourite photos!

 Linda Granfield complains on CBC's Fresh Air, with the work-to-rule last year, many teachers did not put on a school assembly around Remembrance Day, but we've always taught lessons around it. Whether there is a big assembly, or not. Teachers are doing a fine job in schools. Perhaps she is only flogging her books at the expense of our profession. Kids adore talking about the personal family history with regards to war. I think, last year, without parents jumping in front of one another, trying to capture an entire assembly on video, holding up their iPads in front of the people behind them; perhaps last year the lessons were delivered in classrooms with more respect than has been done in many years.

We did much writing about war and peace, about what veterans went through, and visited the War Museum in Ottawa. They developed an amazing website, based on trench warfare, back when I was teaching.

Korea, The Forgotten War
Many have published autobiographies and biographies for us to read. Many of my students lived through war: The Gulf War, some had fled into the hills to avoid war, some were Vietnamese Boat Children, others have been refugees, some from Somalia. We need not educate some kids about war.

SATURDAY, 28 MAY 2011

Another death in Afghanistan Canadian soldier found dead in Afghanistan Bombardier Karl Manning became the 156th Canadian soldier to die in Afghanistan and the second to be killed in 2011.

Thursday, 22 November 2012

Canadians in Afghanistan - Repatriation Memorial



After my conference I was asked to go and see the memorial before we went home.
It is very beautiful. There were heart-wrenching tributes to loved ones.
How fitting that it is on the base, near the beginning of the highway of heroes.

This is what my hubby wrote about it, as he visited when I was at the conference:


About 4 km from our hotel near Trenton, just past CFB Trenton, is the new Memorial to our Afghanistan Veterans. It is located in a small park bordering on the Bay of Quinte. The park is a recreational park and the Memorial is just behind a ball field. 

 I know that there was some debate as to where the memorial should be located but I think they got it right. 

 The memorial consist of two Maple Leaf shaped stones, one with a relief of a group of civilians and the one other with 158 names of Canadians who died in Afghanistan. No doubt we can be divided on the validity of the mission, as we can on all wars, but the sacrifice of the individuals should not be diminished by this. I have seen many such memorials all over the world but, to me, the new idea of listing the the individual names brings home the true cost of war more than the heroic monuments at many sites. 

 As I approached the site, a man and woman were solemnly leaving it. Visiting at the same time as me were two female infantry members in field uniform (probably on lunch break from the base). They were reading and pointing to names that they knew. There is no abstraction here. 
No reflection on another time or place. 
The hurt was real and there in the moment. 

 After my visit , I walked a short distance to the shore , and sat and watched a pair of swans on the water, while over head, a very large cargo plane turned over the water after take off from the base. Maybe the memorial is not where a lot of people will see it, but it is in a damn good spot to reflect on it.


 
  
 
     

Saturday, 28 May 2011

Another death in Afghanistan

Bombardier Karl Manning became the 156th Canadian soldier to die in Afghanistan and the second to be killed in 2011.

He died in a non-combat incident. 
I hope the military will be forthcoming for the family. Cover-ups help no one. While 'blame' solves nothing, this type of thing must be learned from to prevent or help others.

This case (Grieving mother -  below) is as tragic. We know so much more about PTSD, having learned it during Vietnam, and understanding that it applies to many in many situations: rape, accidents, incidents, emotional trauma may last a long time. 


Grieving
 mother's public pleas over death of soldier son win ...


29 Oct 2010 ... Langridge, 28, served in Afghanistan and suffered from post traumatic stress disorder. ... And she outlined a string of mistakes that added to the family's ... stinging of all, withholding his suicide note for 14 months.


WW II
My aunt and father



WW II soldiers - from my late mother's album
PTSD and Older Veterans | Psych Central

12 Dec 2006 ... PTSD and Older Veterans. By National Center for PTSD ... the impact of war trauma for veterans of the Vietnam war and the Persian Gulf war, ... For most World War II veterans, those memories still can be upsetting.

Evolution of Shell Shock to Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

What was so unusual was the large numbers of veterans being affected after Vietnam. The pattern of neuropsychiatric disorder for combatants of World War II.


Critical Incident Stress Intervention[PDF](Toronto Police)

The critical incident: concepts and interventions comprises a range of crisis intervention services that usually include pre-crisis training, individual crisis counseling, group debriefing, and postincident referral for primary and secondary victims. CISM is utilized to address the aftermath of violent acts, and has evolved from earlier crisis intervention and group psychological debriefing procedures. These approaches have been used throughout the world, and CISM is emerging as a standard of care.

Critical Incident Stress Management (CISM) Services - Employee ...

31 Aug 2007 ... Description of the services offered by the Employee Assistance Services (Health Canada) through the Employee Assistance Program (EAP)

Monday, 28 March 2011

R.I.P. Cpl. Scherrer

Another solder has died in Afghanistan.
Scherrer’s death brings the total number of Canadian soldiers killed in Afghanistan to 155. One diplomat and one journalist have also been slain.

 from Montreal, was killed around noon Sunday by a roadside bomb during a foot patrol in the Panjwaii district southwest of Kandahar City. He was the first Canadian soldier to be killed in Afghanistan 2011.
Deepest condolences to his family.

But let us not forget those who came back wounded in body or spirit.
According to the Canadian Forces, 1442 soldiers were wounded in Afghanistan from 2002 to 2009.



WW II soldiers - from my late mother's album
PTSD and Older Veterans | Psych Central

12 Dec 2006 ... PTSD and Older Veterans. By National Center for PTSD ... the impact of war trauma for veterans of the Vietnam war and the Persian Gulf war, ... For most World War II veterans, those memories still can be upsetting.


Evolution of Shell Shock to Post-traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD)

What was so unusual was the large numbers of veterans being affected after Vietnam. The pattern of neuropsychiatric disorder for combatants of World War II.



HOMELESS VETERANS ON THE STREETS OF AMERICA



2 min 40 sec - 25 Mar 2007 - 

Rated 5.0 out of 5.0

( www.vawatchdog.org )From the CBS Evening News, Sunday, March 25, 2007.