Tuesday, 10 May 2011

Roadside Memorials - they creep me out


Ghost bikes will have a time limit in Ottawa

Cole Howard
Roadside memorial, highway #15
Driving around the province, from Ottawa, Wawa, Toronto, Muskoka, Lanark County, we've seen quite a few. A loving tribute to a loved one who has passed over.
Perth Rd.Lanark County Roadside Memorial
ghost bikes

Skootamata River - bridge
roadside memorial near Tweed
Trip to Ottawa Hospital
The message in the bottle
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Jacques Leblanc 1990 - 2013
 Ottawa, ON – Jacques A. LeBlanc, 22
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Monday, 9 May 2011

Perth was a busy place this w/e

We came back to town after the big birthday, first for my 2nd granddaughter.

Behind Code's Mill, we spotted a wedding. What fun!

I love old Perth's buildings.

The big excitement was to go to a Liona Boyd concert. Held in a local church, it was a lovely, intimate venue. Much less expensive than concerts in town, it was an ideal location; a church with great acoustics.

It was quite irritating, in this lovely church, to see people popping up and down. One of the women in her crew kept taking photos, with a flash. The distraction was enormous in the darkend theatre. The press was present, Perth Courier journalist eschewed the flash, but the light from his digital display really was disconcerting, especially when he got up, moved rows for a better image. Then he took out his iPhone, I suppose to upload a tweet: look where I am! As an old codger, I remember when people could sit still for the time it took for a concert. I remember when a flash wasn't allowed. Then he left, part way through the first half of the show, perhaps to go write his story. It seemed rude to me. /my two cents worth.

The EMC paper had written a lovely story, and the show's producer thanked him. I heard Chris tell a friend (he was sitting behind me) that Ms. Boyd was the best interview ever, and the nicest person! More was written about the promoter than the artist. Yet, great advertising for the duet.

Liona Boyd released two records in 2009:
Liona Boyd Sings Songs of Love, seventeen duets with Srdjan Givoje, was released in September.

This is who appeared with her in Perth. A talented Croation, he accompanies her well. He is accomplished, a star in his former native Croatia, he now lives in the US. They met at a conference and decided to pair up. His delightful accent added to the flavour of the concert.

He is married, and it is a business relationship, one with laughter and a joy! They share a love of music. They played a Croation song, with lyrics rewritten by Ms. Boyd. This song gave us a glimmer into his background. His sense of humour adds a spark to the quite reserved lady of the guitar. 

Unused to being a duet, I imagine, having played across the world with orchestras, she seemed nervous and very tight. Part way through the concert Ms. Boyd told us that her father died last week. What a shock. No wonder. Since she loves her guitar so much, I can see that this would be good therapy for her.

Now, she has had some neurological issues, and lost the ability to use her right hand at the level for which she is famou. Such a shame. She divorced her  husband, who was convinced she should quit guitar, and reinvented herself. She is now writing music, and singing much lighter fair, e.g., Liona Body Sings Songs of Love. The video, with a hunky younger actor, seems a bit misplaced. She assured Sunday's audience that she has no man in her life now!

hard getting a photo for this amateur sans flash!
But I'm learning.
She is a beautiful 61, but 61 years nonetheless. Her songs, lots of love songs; and Guantanamera, Puff the Magic Dragon, were fun, and most of us sang along. Even playing a modified guitar style: with less demanding arrangements, her artistry was evident.

What was incongruous, was her ability to play even a modified guitar style, a light touch, world-level abilities, with the light, airy love songs form her new album.

Unfortunately, during the duets, when she held the descant, his microphone wasn't loud enough. The descant should not overpower the melody, now matter how famous you are! His voice isn't bad, but his guitar technique is fabulous, if under utilised. I would think his talents would warrant a couple of solos.

Ms. Boyd's voice is untrained and breathy. Her chest voice is nonexistent for the lower notes in her range. This can be fixed. A series of vocal lessons, even at age 61, would help her. Her phrasing reflects the style of an amateur and could surely be improved with some education. Most pros spend years taking voice lessons, or, at least stretching their voice muscles and vocal chords. And one never, ever, takes a breath in the middle of a word. Her guitar work, even with her disability, doesn't match her vocal technique. It is quite jarring. Many were quite thrilled, I guess her reputation is enough, lining up getting autographs.

tulip beauty
Ms. Boyd has begun writing songs. Taking several old tunes, Greensleeves, for example, and putting new words. This is a tune that is overdone, and I would have preferred a new tune.

She had a bit of a brain fade, and had to restart the tune several times until she found herself. The tune, a very old one, has had a number of interpretations. In this quite casual venue, it was endearing, overall, but frightening. This woman who has given private concerts for popes and queens. She has great courage.

I was disappointed with the lyrics of her songs. They were simple, colourless songs. Fully of love, but there was no rainbow of colour. I expect, when someone of her calibre and background writes lyrics, she would use a variety of poetic tools; simile, metaphor, and the like, but they are quite absent in these simple love songs.

tulips bloom in Perth
One song, about her guitar, seems to show how much more she loves that instrument, than the people in her life. The songs are generic, and lack the experience and love of particular human beings. I hope she finds her voice, and her purpose in life. Her gift, as a classical guitarist, are layered. I have reinvented myself as a volunteer, having lost my ability to work while caring for aging parents. I can understand how difficult it is leaving your old work behind, and creating a new purpose in life. You would think that the world-class musicians in her life would have counselled her to honing her new craft: song writing and her voice, before appearing publicly.

That said, it was a delightful concert overall. For a woman with an incredible life, dating Pierre Trudeau, travelling the world with her guitar, it was good to see her smiling, playing, and finding herself. Interestingly, Shania Twain, also a Canadian, lost her voice a number of years ago, and she, too is reinventing herself as an artist. Many face workplace and careers medical issues. Sports stars are facing concussions, for example, and having to find new careers. With all of us living longer, more productive lives, this is something many of us face. I, too, quit teaching having burned out caring for family members. It is all in how we face our life lessons that makes a difference.

Liona Boyd announced a move back to Toronto, Canada. This is a good thing. I would hope she could teach, and share her knowledge with young people. I took classical guitar back in the 70s, and it is a skill that many can only aspire to. Best of luck to her.

Izzy's first birthday

What fun!
I decided that the Muffin Muncher should come with us. Rather like Sir John's trip of last year! Kids love puppets.

Here is Muffin holding some of the presents. I strapped him in. He was made by a wonderful puppeteer in Muskoka. We found him on one of those Arts Tour weekends, set in the woods, a whole barn devoted to creating her creatures.

The cheese tray, from Foodsmith's, Muffin guarded carefully.


Caitlin had made a pink cake for the wee girl. We love pink. With two girls, one a curly blond, and the other a red-head, they are a delightful family.
What I love is balancing both the pink, girly things, with the 2n hand toy tractor we bought her sister.


These girls have the whole world ahead of them. Jofee, age 3, works her Mom's iPhone as well as my iMovie computer features. Her fave is stil 'Jesse in Lake!' (Jess decided to do an Easter Bunny/Polar Bear swim last year!)

Meantime, we munched, cheese, crackers, fruit, veggies.

The kids played and had a good time!
Izzy Skyped with Grandpa in FLorida. She hung up on him, too! How do they zone in on just the right button?!


Hubby bought her the bib at the OPP museum in Orillia. It was a year ago, when we were house hunting to move closer! I'd just given a speech at the Palliative Care Conference, and then we headed back to the Ottawa Valley to house hunt.

The bib says, 'CAUTION CONTENTS MAY LEAK; ONTARIO PROVINCIAL POLICE!'

Rocking baby to sleep!
Isn't she precious, caring for 'baby'!

 Papa goes on the iPhone to reconnect with Grandpa! Izzy wears one of the gifts, a baby hoodie, Grandpa sent and she opened while Skyping!


Papa, ever the high-tech geek, is on his landline, while also on his iPhone!

What I love about birthdays, is how EVERYONE gets excited! Jofee loves all of her sister's pressies!

She's not sure what to make of the cake!

Why is Mummy using Gamma's camera?!

Sunday, 8 May 2011

I jump for joy!

bloomin' periwinkle
Last year, not knowing we were moving, I transplanted trillium from patches of forest onto our property. What with building the house, in 1991, my parents lost quite a goodly number of natural plants moving topsoil around. Over the years a few trillium popped up. I could see a pink lady slipper once every few years, but the neighbours, with untouched land had far more of these beautiful ecologically sensitive plants. As folks in cottage country remake a property to have it look as if they are living in the city, they destroy natural biomes.

dad's daffies
It broke my heart as the neighbour began filling in the frog pond. Birds, bees, frogs, bugs, minnows, turtles, heron, all depend upon this system. In a way, I was happy to leave. My parents had planted hundreds of daffodils, periwinkle, crocus, and built gardens. I was loathe to leave their toil.

in my parent's frog pond in Muskoka
Happily, I have found a frog pond on our new (Sept., 2010) property. Well, 1/4 of it sits on our property. With the adjacent landowner putting in a road, the land is natural and vacant, I am worried about what will happen.

Daffies and iris on their way

Lilac leaves are 

Fabulous trillium
More joy: apparently, a man named Oswald Love and his wife, built our house in 1978 or so. They used the flat, sedimentary limestone to build pathways and stonescapes, through gardens. I have found many of the plants I so dearly loved in previous gardens: trillium, periwinkle, asiatic lily, peony, daffodils, crocus, as well as some plants that would not have survived in the cold of Muskoka.

I planted some lilac, bridal wreath spirea, Rose of Sharon, and I will miss them blooming.
Good thing there are many lilac on this property. But my special place, the frog pond.


Our land earns a benefit of being left natural. We get a tax break because we are beside a protected bog, a 'provincially significant wetland', and we haven't developed the land. Conservation Land Tax Incentive Program:

Conservation Land Tax Incentive Program (CLTIP) - Natural Resource ...

Bulrushes are beginning to rise to the sun
This tree, a majestic pine, went over in the big storm.
Shallow roots, 6' across, didn't hold it in the bog over the clay.
20 Dec 2010 ... The Conservation Land Tax Incentive Program (CLTIP) is designed to recognize, encourage and support the long-term private stewardship of outstanding natural features.



She looks awfully thin