Friday, 6 January 2012

Canadians – polite people or private complainers

Sometimes all it takes is a phone call!
Is it just me, or are Canadian just complainers? We bitch in line. We don't do anything about poor services, long wait times, being ignored in a store, or cranky servers.

We do not write letters.
We do not speak to managers.
We don't phone head office.
We do not speak to servers directly.
We do not teach people how to treat us.
We COMPLAIN privately!
 We whine with friends.

This gives us the opportunity to complain about something other than the weather, I suppose!


Ontario Today had a show on which they invited people to phone in with customer service horror stories. Friday: Worst Customer Service 
Ever Cranky sales people; non-existant staff; quibbling over return policies.

 Their guest, a trainer: Shawn Belding, with a book and agency to flog, was the feature on this show. He offered some solutions, but we heard story after story of poor service and bad treatment.
Some phone-in callers spoke about getting on a store PS system and calling for service, and leaving the store. We have to be proactive.

Marketplace, another CBC show, is beginning the 2012 season with Canada's Worst Customer Service. They share frustrating customer shopping experiences and a poll.
"All research was conducted via an online survey.
For more details on our results: Read the full executive summary (PDF 585KB)"
(Not the best source of data!)


Marketplace set hidden cameras. They focused on the negative. They put an actor in to be purposefully rude. They surely didn't focus on the reverse: how rude, ignorant, demanding customers shape the service the NEXT customer receives!

They don't feature stores who do well in this area. They cite a number of complaints, and don't tell us what we can do. Yes, retail and customer services jobs are fairly low-paid, but this cannot be an excuse.


Canada's Worst Customer Service
Erica Johnson was interviewed on CBC Radio to promote the show. She stated, 'As a society Canadians are too polite!'

I disagree. Yes, many do not make a formal complaint. We prefer to complain to those we meet about how we have been treated horribly.
We complain on Facebook.
We complain to friends.
We walk out of stores.

This is only half of the story, however. I wonder how they behaved for their part of the interaction?!

What we CAN do!
Shop locally, become a locavore, frequent stores where you become familiar.
Be a good customer. Be polite, patient, wait your turn in line.
Eschew the big box stores and chains. In the Marketplace show, the worst were Walmart, Canadian Tire, and Zellers. Their bottom line is profit, poor quality goods you must throw out sooner rather than later, poorly paid employees who are cogs in the wheel.

Hubby on the phone with Bell!
What we can do is to make a formal complaint.
Not a quiet one behind a person's back. I have found if I speak to the offending party, it makes a difference. Barring that, you speak to a manager or supervisor. Of course, if you are talking to a large corporation, with employees who have little vested interested in improving service (Bell, Rogers, etc.!) you are often out of luck. But you can record your interactions, note employee names or numbers, the time and date of your call. We have had a month of service reimbursed from this strategy. Marketplace explains How to Get Better Customer Service, but this is after the fact.

Remember the broken guitar on United Airlines? Some days you just don't get satisfaction. Don't take it out on the employees who were not involved. When you phone a corporation, keep your cool.

What we can do is highlight CEOs who do well for their customers and their employees. One such person in Leonard Lee, CEO of Lee Valley Tools.
His stores are closed on Sunday to allow employees to be with family members.
He limits his salary, and gives 25% of the profits back to employees.
His employees include those with grey hair, like mine, who know what they are talking about.
Remember my story about this dude?
Called me old and a prude!
I'd asked him to turn down his vulgar YouTube video!
If a product goes on sale within a certain period of time, his company will send the customer a refund of the difference. (I know – I've had one!)

This is about:
  • Policy: returns policies, customer policy, head office pronouncements
  • Processes: the ease of doing business with a business
  • Personnel: training, the number of staff, pay and benefits, product knowledge seminars 
  • Practices: expectations, complaints processes, relationships with customers, resolving customer and employee conflict.
This woman made a difference:
Papa John's customer Minhee Cho tweeted a photo of a receipt she received at a Papa John's restaurant in uptown, New York City. In it, under the customer's name section, the restaurant employee who rang up the order used the racial slur "lady chinky eyes" to describe her.

UPDATE: Papa John's has responded to the incident on Facebook. A post on its official page reads:
We were extremely concerned to learn of the receipt issue in New York. This act goes against our company values, and we've confirmed with the franchisee that this matter was addressed immediately and that the employee is being terminated. We are truly sorry for this customer's experience.
The company has also addressed the matter on its Twitter feed, tweeting to multiple people that "We have issued an apology, are reaching out to customer & franchise employee is being terminated."

Skywatch Friday - here comes another one!

Heavy clouds to the south!
Walkies in the morning, the sky showed what was on our way. A couple of inches of snow.

The skies cleared, I took my boys for a walk!
Buster on the driveway!


Too bad the hydro wires are in the way!

On the way back from a milk run that evening at the local general store, the sky and sun met.
I was nearly run off the road, with people speeding by me. But I pulled over to take some photos.
 Here are more, if you are so inclined! Visit:

Skywatch Friday
Skywatch Friday

Thursday, 5 January 2012

Felix watching for mice friends in the snow

Buster in the sunshine
Only -15C., he is a brave little one. The days are getting colder. I didn't take them out until the late morning, when things had warmed up a tad. What *is* the difference between -18 and -15? Not much, actually! The sun was a blessing in the front room.

On one of the coldest days this winter, Felix and Buster went out to play. Felix was keep watch beside the stone bridge (mice friends). Buster was watching the birds. Buster wanders over under the other pine tree and stares into the grassy knoll.

Turns out his deer friends were out there. Then the turkeys turned up!
The turkeys weren't happy with me!




Scraping under the bird feeder for crumbs
they tolerate one another
 

I love our visitors. A deer stood outside under the tree for a half hour, she had a sign 'won't work for food'!
At -18 C. this morning, she just stood there. Buster hid under the porch, fascinated.

Wednesday, 4 January 2012

Book Review: Left Neglected

By Lisa Genova
I must admit, I wasn't prepared for too much. I reviewed Genova's previous book, Still Alice, and I wasn't thrilled with it. I learned a lot, but wasn't happy with the novel. Still Alice was much too didactic, with the author using the novel to  explain Early Onset Alzheimer Disease, and the neuroscience of brain issues to her readers. I wondered if this book, Left Neglected, based on the main character's brain injury, and her fight for recovery, might have the same feeling: university professor lecturing to readers. (Lisa Genova has a Ph.D. in neuroscience from Harvard!)

Fortunately, this wasn't true for this novel. This novel is much more compelling. Yes, people with brain injuries often work hard to overcome their disabilities, and this can be a positive life lesson. There is much their families must learn. With Alzheimer's we know the ending, as plaque build up slowly shuts down executive functioning, confounds abstract thinking skills, and then claims the normal character of the person we knew. If you would like to read about this, you need only visit a couple of blogs: Our Journey Through Alzheimer's, for example. Still Alice broke one's heart, in this respect.

This novel is much better. Genova has learned more about using the novel to educate, while keeping the form of setting, character development, and plot. This novel has hope, while we learn about the nuances of recovering from or adapting to a brain injury. That can doom a reader who isn't engaged, or has any investment in the outcome.

In my situation, I work and volunteer with a number of people who have suffered strokes, have limited income, and many have complicated disabilities. For anyone who works with such clients, this novel will help with an understanding of the frustration of dealing with diminished capacity from the point of view of client/patient. In some cases, hopes change, as permanent damage is witnessed, but this is all part of the journey.

Once the author established some humanity in the character, I began to like her and hope for her! The first few chapters I found rather tedious, having lived the life of a working mom, but it is essential to developing the novel's framework. I didn't have much empathy for the character, let alone sympathy, until a few chapters in. On the other hand, I realized that I didn't exactly share the perspective of this character: a working mom of three children, with a nanny, two-parent family, huge mortgage, living in an affluent suburb of Boston. It is hard to identify with her in many respects. That said, she does have the humanity of an Oprah guest: she is sharing her lessons with us, as we working mothers fight to be all we can be.
It is a good read. I recommend it to any and all.

From another reviewer:

Left Neglected is artfully told, managing to hold the reader in the story while exploring the curious condition of Left Neglect, also known as Hemispatial Neglect.

Read an excerpt.

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Tuesday, 3 January 2012

Another frosty morning, treacherous driving

Jan. 1st snowfall
Jan. 2nd snowfall
I purposefully did not shovel the driveway. I did a great job on the 1st of January, but yesterday, with the odd snow showers, the temperatures hovering around zero C., we drove home to terrible conditions. The highway itself was icy. School is out until next week, and traffic was much less than usual.

 This is nothing like the Lake Effect snow that has attacked those south east of the Great Lakes, but the 2 or 3 cm of snow had frozen onto the warm highway.


A neighbour trying to pull into their road.
When they do not slow down,
and pull out onto the other lane,
folks behind do not know that there is an issue.
Drivers are still not using their heads. One guy was tailgating, and I pulled over to let him pass. Death wish, me, not so much. Cars coming towards me were driving uncharacteristically slower than usual. He didn't seem to notice.

Pick a lane! Look around you!
We left Perth for home and, as I drove, I realized there was a bit of a shine on the asphalt.  Being a former math teacher, I put 2 + 2 together, and promptly pulled over and put both my right wheels onto the shoulder of the road. This gave me a bit more traction. I was 500 m from my driveway, praying for safety!

Another dude in a large pick-up truck cruised up behind me, close enough to examine the contents of my trunk. I put on my turn signal to let him know I was turning left, and needed to slow down. He didn't get the message.


As I turned left across the other lane, he loomed, again, in my rear view mirror. I knew I was beginning a slide and honked the horn in sheer frustration. Idiot. He swerved onto the shoulder, narrowly avoiding me. Praise be.

This kind of attitude; that I'm important, and I can pass you unsafely, people on cell phones, that speed limits are just suggestions, is what causes the ridiculous statistics.

I'm not the only one to notice the needless incidents on rural roads:
Central Ontario
Police Reveal Details Into Highway 69 Crash:  on Highway 69, in Muskoka, that killed four and sent three others to hospital.  

And in Eastern Ontario: Why rural roads are deadly
January 04, 2012

by Kelly Egan, Ottawa Citizen
  • Renfrew has 812 kilometres of two-lane roads and 771 are classified rural. 
  • Lanark has 565 kilometres
  • Stormont, Dundas and Glengarry another 982.  Read more...
The statistics tell the truth: rural vs. urban, afternoon rush hour (not morning), more males than females.

Ontario Road Safety Statistics Report - 2008

Canada: of 2,187 fatal crashes, 1,450 occurred in rural settings.
Deer on the highway, road kill on our corner was about one per week during the summer.
  • 574 fatal crashes: 381 were in urban areas and 192 in rural ones. 
  • Sunday was the worst day of the week, with 93 fatal crashes, while Thursday was the best (63). 
  • worst hour of the day for fatalities was 4 p.m. to 5 p.m. 
  • Long weekends
  • Males in fatal crashes: 715 to 232 females. 
Persons Injured62,743
Estimated Ontario Population12,932,297
Licensed Drivers9,042,286
Registered Motor Vehicles8,361,021
Estimated Vehicle Kilometres Travelled (in millions)124,673

Tracks in the snow and ice!





Thumper!
A wee mouse!
Joe's tracks from last night!
This morning a fine skiff of snow covers our ice. The highway is bare. All is well.
Ditto: sliding along the ice.
I always take my camera out. I hope that when they recover my body, having crossed the highway to fetch the paper, they'll have a photo of the driver that murdered me!

I spotted some lovely animals tracks on the snow and ice.



The birds had no trouble!
Thumper coming, and sliding as s/he was going!

Monday, 2 January 2012

Snow vehicles speed laws - safety

sledding

And still they die.

14.  (1)  No person shall drive a motorized snow vehicle at a greater rate of speed than,
(a) 20 kilometres per hour,
(i) on a highway where the speed limit established pursuant to the Highway Traffic Act is 50 kilometres per hour or less, or
(ii) in any public park or exhibition grounds; or
(b) 50 kilometres per hour,
(i) on any highway which is open to motor vehicle traffic, where the speed limit established pursuant to theHighway Traffic Act is greater than 50 kilometres per hour, or
(ii) on a trail. R.S.O. 1990, c. M.44, s. 14 (1).







Can someone tell me why they make machines capable of such high speeds?

The laws are clear, but we find that those still drive at high speeds, drink and drive, or drive unsafely.
Our rural volunteer firefighters are called to action.

In southern Ontario, 2007, an off-duty Durham officer (41) and a friend (44),  were using a radar at night, on a lake, to test the speed of their machine. They were on Lake Scugog, in the dark and the friend killed the officer. I still remember the horror of this story. 

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To help educate Ontario snowmobilers, the OPP and the OFSC are providing the following checklist. A compliant snowmobile operator must always have on their person or sled:

- Valid driver's licence (or if under age 16, a Snow Vehicle Operator's Licence)
- Proof of snowmobile ownership
- Sled registration (including properly placed registration numbers and validation sticker on sled)
- Proof of sled insurance (pink slip)
- Approved snowmobile helmet (for each rider)
- 2010 Snowmobile Trail Permit (properly displayed on the sled) with permit receipt

In addition, the rules of the road apply to this sport:


  • speeding,
  • failing to stop at a road crossing and
  • driving with blood/alcohol levels exceeding the legal limit.

Failure to comply with the law carries penalties including fines, loss of driver's licence, criminal charges and/or imprisonment.

CONTENTS

Definitions
Permit and registration requirements
Trail permit required
Administrative requirements
Registration number to be kept clean, unobstructed
Driving on King’s Highway or secondary highway
Duty of driver when school bus stopped on highway
Municipal by-laws, etc.
Crossing roadway
Driving requirements
Operator’s licences
Crown liability, delegation
Application of certain Acts
Insurance
Duty to report accident
Speed limit
Careless driving
Driver’s obligations
Stopping for vehicles with red or red and blue lights
Power of police officer to stop
Equipment requirements
Towing
Driver shall wear helmet
Vehicle shall bear National Safety Mark
Risks willingly assumed
Liability of owner
Owner may be convicted
Offences and fines
Regulations

Sunday, 1 January 2012

Cooking! Welcome to 2012!

We have a great lunch at the Cooke house! It was my birthday party, Freedom Shifty-five, where all worked to ensure I had a great one!

Modeling the new apron!
Isabelle is on her way to try it out,
while Josephine, the elf, happily reads!
For Christmas, I gave the kids matching mother/daughter aprons, the child apron included a small wooden spoon and rolling pin.

They cook a lot together, both mother/daughter and father/daughter, and I thought this would be fun.

The best part is the stool we had built by Three-cut Kent, in Bala!

It serves as a snack table, work table, and step stool!

Caitlin & Josephine baking, June, 2010!
Jofee is high atop the step stool!
Kids can have so much fun in the kitchen. I have many fond memories of the kids helping me cook and bake.
Josephine, Aug. 14, 2009
Hard at work colouring!

Snack table!





I am very proud of our children. Caitlin works 4 days out of 5, Jean-Luc works as a consultant from home. The kids are in a Home Day Care four days a week.

I've been a working mom, and they aren't so much juggling family life as living it to the fullest.

My late mother went back to work when I was 5 years old.

We were a working class family.

She worked 31 years for Toronto's Rotary Club, in the Royal York Hotel.

My mom's best friend, a neighbour babysat us.
It's the cutest apron ever, with matching one for mommy!
A Cookbook
for the cooks in the house!
My grandmother, 'Nanny', lived nearby and I walked to her house for lunch on Cottingham Ave. in Toronto from my elementary school.

Now, we have many families who benefit from day care; public, private and non-profit, where kids are looked after in love and joy. The kids' day care provider is a wonderful woman, who takes kids to play dates, and on outings.

Caitlin, age 12 in 1991, making pancakes!
I am glad to be watching the big changes that have occurred for working mothers.


Welcome to 2012!

Below is a video Josephine (4 years old) made, while Mummy and Papa were cooking in their kitchen! Having taught these skills to my students as young as gr. 4, I knew she could do this, too!