Showing posts with label vancouver wedding trip 2014. Show all posts
Showing posts with label vancouver wedding trip 2014. Show all posts

Tuesday, 3 June 2014

Who is glad to be home?

Yes. The worst trip ever. It was trouble after trouble. It is a beautiful part of our country, and we arrived safely after a 5-hour trip, but there were various hitches, including my stress levels from the past few months. of caregiving after hubby's surgery.

We all were watching various weather reports for this outdoor wedding. It was quite funny, even though we couldn't change it!
Our French server assured me that,
"Mariage pluvieux, mariage heureux!"
Rainy wedding, happy wedding!

It did dump rain on the morning of the wedding, as it did our wedding in 2002, on the front lawn of Mom's home beside the lake, but it cleared up. The wedding went off with only one hitch, that between the bride and groom! It hailed during my daughter's indoor wedding, in 2005!

There were ups and downs, and I was so stressed out with worry. Thankfully, yes, it was fun with the grandkids. The city of Vancouver is fabulous for tourists.
We did some touristy things, bought souvenirs, visited Stanley ParkStanley Park nanny trees, with the kids and grandkids, and Vancouver Aquarium photosVancouver Aquarium - Graham Amazon Gallery, with the bride and groom, kids and grandkids.A lovely couple of lunches and a breakfast with two delightful Albertans.

I babysat the girls, while hubby visited with friends, and the kids went out and met my other son and his girlfriend. We plunked JLs iPad on the booster seat and had our own theatre! Aren't they sweet?!
We watched Frozen. Again!


I just find eating out gets onerous after awhile, especially when one has dietary issues. Poor hubby trying to figure out what he could eat that wouldn't upset his stomach, and didn't contain dairy. He'd have a stomach ache for hours or days. He was a trooper.

Our bell hops!
Back at the Langley hotel, having checked out of the Vancouver hotel, Caitlin helped her stepfather unpack, in the rain! My hair was done for the wedding rehearsal and I didn't want to get it wet! I gave my granddaughter, Jofee,
 a loony and she gave her mommy a tip! It was a good joke!

That was all good, and we definitely
Can you name this magazine?
supported the BC economy between souvenirs and admission to the tourist venues.

The girls loved their bunk beds in the family-oriented hotel room in Langley. It was a great hotel.

My Buster meows for freedom,
Daisy hasn't spotted me yet!
Daisy looks desperate
It was wonderful to get home. The next morning we drove to the Cat's Meow Inn to pick them up. Sadie was rather ticked off and didn't want to come out of her kennel. She was in a room of her own!
Buster busted out, as did the girls, they had a deluxe suite for the 3 of them.
The new owners are delightful, and very caring.

Who let the cats out? ME!
We just opened the carriers,
 and the car trunk door
when we arrived home.
 We managed chores: unpacking, gardening, groceries, laundry, renewing hubby's licence (SIGH).

Monday, 2 June 2014

Surrey RCMP is alienating tourists

I'd like to report a crime.
A crime against this tourist –who supported the BC economy.

My question for Surrey RCMP is, "When is it up to parents to monitor their children and ensure they aren't playing on city streets?" It was 30 km/hour on a stretch where locals chronically didn't follow the speed limit.
I had to pay a $196 fine. It wasn't a pretty cry, either. Stress'll do that to you. It was the last straw on the worst trip ever. I was so embarrassed. A girlie cry. I'm vigilant with speed limits, despite tailgators. I let people pass.

Then, I locked my keys in the trunk of the rental car, fetching my Ontario driver's licence. It was humiliating. Yes, girlie cry.
Having gotten lost 4 times that day, since GPS isn't accurate in Vancouver, either, I was pretty frazzled. A warning, pointing out the speed limit, would have helped. When the RCMP are used to dealing with criminals, that's how I was treated. People like me, we learn from our mistakes, when given a chance.

We were on our way to the wedding rehearsal, and hubby was ill, his cancer is still present, and he had been ill for the week we were there. I was having anxiety issues with the stress of the drive. Many of your rural drivers are awful, as many are in my neck of the woods. Great big pick-up trucks tailgating in my rear view, and I was trying to keep with the traffic flow.

As a retired teacher, I'm pretty wary of kids at play. On this Sunday afternoon of the long weekend, and wedding rehearsal, there were no kids playing in the park, although when I saw you I noted I was doing 50. This is the speed in such parts my part of the world.




A warning that it was not in yours would have been wonderful. The cars behind us similarly were tailgating and pretty much trying to make me go faster. I am shocked that a visitor to your fair city, who has dumped more than $5000 into your economy, wasn't simply given a warning.
My granddaughter knew I was upset.
It was an ugly cry.
She wrote me a sweet note!

Those locals who choose to speed should be fined.

This was the worst trip I'd ever had, hubby's 2nd worst!
GPS didn't work, the maps were awful, too.
We got stuck in construction and traffic on the way to the airport. Thankfully, my son navigated, as hubby and I were frazzled.

UPDATE #1: I was wondering why I drew so many trolls to the page. You know trolls, you can't really ID them, most post anonymous comments and are not interested in dialogue, some create fake IDs in order to attack from their high-minded positions. The newspaper posted my blog post URL.

UPDATE #2: Yep, dear readers, I have deleted the messages from the trolls, smart-asses and lurkers. I don't need you to tell me that I'm a troll, or that I shouldn't have a driver's licence. I don't need these vitriolic, abusive, negative comments you've been making. I paid the fine.

I hope the RCMP are successful in slowing traffic, but I seriously doubt it! I think someone should trim the trees around this section. It would make it easier to see the playground.
Those who understand my point, thank you.

Those who tell me not to go back to Surrey, get a grip! Chances are, I won't. I just have to remember that there are good people in Surrey, my son's in-laws, not just those who have a mighty sense of self-righteousness, never broken a law or driven above the speed limit.

UPDATE #3: Some anonymous person was right, the Surrey newspaper was mocking me. They didn't get the message at all. New on the street. Distracted by the radar trap ahead. The paper writes an article that they are short-staffed Surrey RCMP, but put two men on duty all Sunday afternoon of the long weekend.

Certainly, we do more in Ontario to attract tourists. Not in Surrey. I was obviously new to the area. I was driving a rental car.
What a snarky tweet for a journalist. Gone are the days of reporting the news!
I posted to this effect, and suggested that one comment, mocking me as well, violates their Comments protocol. My comment has yet to be posted.


No. I didn't see the signage. I did see the RCMP with the radar gun, though, perhaps that was what distracted me. I could see cars being pulled over in the distance. I thought something was seriously wrong. A warning would have sufficed for this law-abiding citizen. I was more concerned with the woman ahead of me, with her rear of her car sticking out in the road.

This is what our OPP do in Ontario. They educate, and try to reform citizens.
Certainly, OPP has had quite the time, and success, slowing racing drivers. We have a street racing law for those going 30km over the limit.

Speeding / Street Racing / Aggressive Driving

The number of people killed in Ontario in speed-related collisions dropped from 113 in 2009 to 87 in 2010 – a reduction of 23 per cent.

Street racers and other drivers who put other road users at risk by driving aggressively now face roadside vehicle impoundment and licence suspensions, and upon conviction face a fine of up to $10,000, a jail term of up to six months, and prolonged licence suspensions.

The RCMP are a different story, methinks. I can't blame them, not with mad murderers out there. My message to them, most of us do not break the law. Most of us are good people.

Surrey newspapers do not care about their tourism industry or those who make a living off people, like myself, who don't mind dipping into a line-of-credit to travel, entertain kids and grandkids.

UPDATE #4: I'm being mocked, again, by arrogant tweeps. I am shocked that they didn't take an opportunity for education, rather than punishment. I'm all for consequences, but this was harsh.
Surrey has many problems with violence, a rock through a window, crime, multiple car crashes, theft, assaults, gangs, home invasions, stabbings. You can read them, it *is* shocking. I'm all for traffic calming measure, but target the chronic offenders. Anonymous Tweeps tell me I'm 'livid'. No. Embarrassed, shocked, distraught that I didn't see the sign, shamed that I cried. Don't you dare tell me how I feel. You obviously didn't read my post. Give anyone a platform, and they go nuts.

Not so much a great place to vacation. 

Beautiful spot, but scary times

Screen captures of the site

Picture RCMP car, officer in driveway
You think I was watching signage?
I was concerned with them & parked cars.

In the driveway on the right,
a woman was pulled over, with another officer.

Very distracti

this is what they saw of me

UPDATE #5: Good news

Web traffic up, 382 views of this post; snarky, anonymous and/or ignorant comments deleted. And no, I don't delete those who simply disagree with me. I deleted mocking, puerile, sarcastic remarks from sanctimonious, perfect hypocrites, registered ID or not.

June 16

Still the pejorative comments are coming. When you disparage a good woman, like my friend Kay, you can believe I won't publish it. This is my blog. Disagree agreeably, or suck it up, buttercup. The original Surrey article shows a firefighter being ticketed in a file photo. Interesting.

None get my point: this is an opportunity for education. It's an opportunity for good PR for the sexism said to be in the RCMP forces, RCMP who go bad, PTSD in the forces, and investigations into RCMP wrongdoing.

Who is policing the (RCMP) police?

UPDATE #6
I saw this group on a news program. Interesting work, which supports my premise that it is education that wins over drivers, as well as realistic speed limits.

Here is a snippet:
Setting speed limits according to the standards of the Institute of Transportation Engineers (the 85th percentile method) will…
* focus enforcement on dangerous drivers, not revenue collection
* increase speed limit compliance
* provide greater consistency of speed limits
* reduce speed variance resulting in reduced crashes
The 85th percentile is the speed to which 85 percent of drivers travel below (under average, free-flow conditions).



Saturday, 31 May 2014

Vancouver's Museum of Anthropology

We visited the Museum of Anthropology, with the wonderful totem poles and other artifacts. The setting, alone, is worth seeing!

Thursday, 29 May 2014

Vancouver trip: Fort Langley

On our way to the wedding, we checked into hotel #2, or tried to, having met Kay at the airport, we drove through to Langley. What to do, while we waited for our 1:30 check-in... We had to wait a bit longer, since I'd asked that our room to be near the kids. We drove out to Fort Langley. It's a well organised spot, with many activities for the kids. Our kids went on the day after the wedding and had a blast! By then, we were home.


This chicken was fascinating. She looks like someone I've seen on TV. What do you think?!