I want to show you my late mother's room divider. The kids will remember staying at the cottage, with no door on the TV room/guest room. Mom wanted a screen. I asked a now defunct Manotick antique store if they had one, and they found me this one. That was somewhere around 1995. It has beautiful hidden screws, covered by carved plugs. Mom replaced the fabric with this white lacey stuff.Dad used to get up at 5:30 a.m. to put on the wood stove. Sabre, the dog, would peer under the divider to see if we were up!
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| Sabre, with mom and dad, 2002, BALA |
Anyway, I have loaned the divider to a bereavement group run out of our local hospice agency, for whom I volunteer. I'm sure Mom would have thought that very cool! It would have been her 93rd birthday on the 4th of the 4th, last week.
We used it when I volunteered with Day Hospice. At that time, my friend, Susan, gifted tea cups to Day Hospice that belonged to her daughter.
We toodled into the city to have lunch with JB's aunt. She gave him an old photo album that belonged to his late mother. They talked about old times.
Today, April 12th, would have been my parents' anniversary. I have photos.
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| Dad, Nanny, Mom, Wedding April 12th, 1945 |
Ray Jilks (1925 - 2007)
Joan Jilks (1925 – 2006)
Anne Butt (1883 – 1978)
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| April 12th, 1945 |
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| Mom and dad at their home, Walker Ave., Toronto |
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| Mom adored her grandbaby, Caitlin, Bala, 1980 |
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| Mom and dad at our wedding, 2002, Bala |











